I am currently reading a great book. “Things that Matter” by Joshua Becker.
The actual subtitle of the book is “Overcoming Distaction to Pursue a More Meaningful Life.” The author takes readers on a journey of self-examination, aimed at cutting the dead weight in life that hinders all of us from reaching our full potential.
He explores eight different types of distractions that frequently afflict people: “fear, past mistakes, happiness (in a shallow sense, money, possessions, fame, human respect. recreation and technology. “ So, if we strip ourselves of all these things from life, what’s left?
Here is his answer. “A streamlined life that’s genuinely aligned with your values, passions, and purpose, a life lived with a higher cause in mind.”
This book is about so much more than how you feel. “There may be no greater pursuit for yourself and others than choosing to live a meaningful life focused on the things that matter.” Isn’t that the message of that Jesus taught?
Becker answers the question convincingly that true happiness and meaning is on “servant – mindedness”, generosity and focusing on what you have to offer to others and the world in general. He argues that we should not think of work or any work we do, as mere drudgery. Instead, we should see it as a meaningful expression of how we respond to what needs to be accomplished. It might be just doing a good turn for someone, our family or someone we don’t even know. In other words, to make our world a better place. I hope that washing dishes is included!!
Many of you reading this might be retired, living alone or perhaps unable to be active in your community. If so, you can still find a way to be a servant to others. That will be a sense of fulfillment in your life.
Frequently, Becker drawers the readers with thoughts toward the end of life and what it would feel like to look back on the way we have lived. Will we be filled with regrets about a sense of wasted time, or will we rest knowing that we lived with purpose and passion? We must be aware of the truly important things that matter and how to cut free of the stuff that doesn’t.
It’s time to not only declutter our closets but declutter our lives. Living a life with meaning. Our self-fulfillment will be influenced by how we have influenced others.
Not that’s what really matters!