“Do not think more highly of yourself than you ought.”  Paul wrote (Romans 12:3).  So, we cannot love ourselves, Paul??  That isn’t what Paul is writing. 

 God saw fit to create an Adam and an Eve.  He loved them both and by extension He loves us and created us.   

But the story of those who feel deep down that they are unworthy and unlovable is a tale as old as time.  So, if we don’t value, love or at least respect ourselves, can we love others? 

How should we feel about ourselves?  Many people find it easier to love others than themselves. 

God wrote that we are to love Him above all else. “Be holy, for I am Holy. “
Self-love is part of that, but it’s not the same thing.  Can I act in all manner of ways and still love myself?

The key to loving myself is not self-love but self-awareness.  Who we are in our deepest reality.  That I am special to God. 

It’s not my fellow’s humanity that I am commanded to love.  It is the divinity in each person that I must recognize, as well as my own, as God created all of us in His image. 

So, then the commandment to love God and my fellow man starts to converge.  That includes that we must love ourselves as well, since we are indeed, God’s creation.

 The first step is to give yourself permission to love yourself and drop the negative association you have about that that means.  Self- love doesn’t mean that you are selfish and self-absorbed, but that you develop a trusting heart that welcomes yourself as worthy of love and respect. 

Since we are hard wired for connection and relationships, self-love is the basis for radiating that love outward to others.  The only way to love others is by connecting to and love the inner spark called the soul. 

We can and must love others.  Not by allowing them to act in way that dishonors God, but by ministering to them. It’s also called discipleship.  Jesus told us, we must become disciple makers.  It’s what we must do and be to honor our commitment as Believers. 

                 It all starts with our own worth.  That we all matter to God. 

                        Love God, Love Yourself, Love Others. 

I was doing some rearranging of old books and found several belonging to my sweet mother, whose faith was amazing.  I found this lovely book of poems and thought I would share a couple with you instead of my usual blog.  I hope they are as meaningful to you as they are to me.  They were all composed by a Grace Holl Crowell.   

The book was Copyrighted in 1939 and dedicated to Mothers of America.  Those reading these poems might not be mothers, but they are meaningful to all of us. 

                                                A Remedy for Care

                                      Consider the lilies of the field
                                    Behold the birds of the air,
                                    Thus the Master has given us
                                    A cure for all our cares.

                                    Birds do not sow, they do not reap,
                                    Nor gather their stores ahead;
                                    But out of loving hands of God
                                    They all are safely fed.

Oh ye of little faith, said, One
            who loves us our lifetime through,
            Shall we not know that He will feed
            And clothe us, too?

Thirty Three Short Years.

How young He was, how short His time on earth
A pulse-beat through the centuries, a breath between the starlit house of His birth, and that strange, darkened hour of His death.
Yet had those years not gone their swift sure way,
 Had their significance been lost to men, there would be darkness in the land today,
 No faith would lift, no heart could hope again.

Thank God, thank God for those years’ precious story!
Thank God for sharing Him to you, to me,
Out of the glory that was Theirs before
 The world was………. and the glory yet to be.

The darkened years for Him that brought us light:
The weary years for Him that gave us rest:
The clamorous years, that we might know
The happiness within our breast.
For thirty-three brief years that His feet trod
 The earthly roads for us, 
We thank Thee, God for sharing
                          Him with us!!

“You shall pay for life, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot burn for burn, wound for wound, stripe for stripe.” (Exodus 21:25)

 God seems to extract harsh judgements for those who commit these offences. 

It would seem in this passage from the Torah (the laws of Old Testament) condones an extreme and retaliatory brand of justice. This passage is often used to contrast harsh justice to Yeshua’s message of grace and mercy.

“You have heard that it was said, ‘An eye for an eye and tooth for a tooth”, but I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.” (Matthew 5:38-39)

It appears that Yeshua is telling his disciples that the Torah prescribed one method of dealing with offenses, but He is now prescribing a different one.  Where the Torah endorsed strict, retaliatory justice, Yeshua endorses mercy and grace.  But is this really what He is teaching His disciples?

So, when Yeshua makes the statement, “You have heard that it was said, an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth”, what is He trying to say?

These laws served a two-fold purpose.  First, they were for the protection of those who incur damages at the hands of others.  Most importantly, however, they were for the person who was liable for the damages (the offender), to take personal responsibility for the harm of others.  These laws were never created for retaliation.  Not to extract more punishment than was inflicted.

This legislation addresses and instructs them how they should attempt to compensate for the damage they have caused, giving the court a basis of value by which it can define the compensation. 

What Yeshua does, on the other hand, is address the victim.  By saying, “if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.”  He specifically addresses the response of the victim, rather than the responsibility of the offender, who has already been address by the Torah laws.  

He makes it clear that when we are wronged, when we incur damages, we are not to demand restitution.  We are to treat others with the same mercy which we would desire to receive if the tables were reversed. 

The law addresses the offender, while Yeshua addresses the victim.  Yeshua upholds Torah completely and instructs us on how to live beyond the letter of the law to the greater spirit of holiness that the Torah embodies.

  It would honor our Master if we remember this principle the next time someone wrongs us, and we are tempted to demand what we deem is justice. 

            “Do unto others, as you would have them do to you. “

Rachael was beautiful but Leah had weak eyes!  We aren’t sure just what that means.  I doubt if it really is about her eyes but more about her beauty.  In a culture where a girl’s appearance and status determined her worth, Leah suffered from being compared to her beautiful sister, Rachael. 

Jacob fell madly in love with Rachel.  The story begins in Gensis 29. Jacob worked for Laban to earn Rachel, but then he was tricked, and Leah became number one wife. Jacob was dismayed.  Imagine Leah’s heartbreak knowing that she would never experience her husband’s true love. 

God knew Leah’s pain.  Leah gave Jacob the greatest gifts she could give: many sons.  But that was not enough.  You can hear her heartbreak in the names she gave each son at his birth.   With each birth, Leah longed for Jacob’s love and approval that never came. 

Like Leah, sometimes we also strive for the approval of people to fill a void that only God can satisfy.  When Leah stopped reaching for Jacob’s affection and started resting in God promises, her legacy was transformed.  From her son, Judah, came the line of King David, and eventually, Jeshua/ Jesus the Messiah (Matt1:1-2).

 Leah’s story is a powerful reminder that even though initially her desire was not fulfilled, God used her in incredible ways. 

Many of us have experienced deep discouragement at some time.  Maybe it was a dream that didn’t come true or a healing that never occurred.  Perhaps a significant relationship ended, or a prayer that seemed to go unanswered.  Disappointment is a universal human experience. If we let it take root, it can produce resentment and despair. 

Disappointment often stems from delays.  But God’s delays are not denials.  Faith means trusting His timing even when from our perspective the answer is long overdue.   

 Though your situation might not change immediately, your heart can find peace in God because He never fails. 

Leah’s story reveals that when we shift our focus from our disappointments to believing in His timing, we find our identity and purpose.  He is the one who heals our hearts and gives us eternal hope.  “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.  He rescues those whose spirits are crushed. (Ps. 34:18)

                                         God Has a purpose for you.              

                                                Be encouraged!

Nothing arouses us more than music.  When we hear the band playing Stars and Stripes Forever it arouses a patriot fervor!  Perhaps it’s a favorite song from our childhood or a meaningful hymn from our worship.  Music is part of our soul.

 Isaiah 49:13 “Sing for joy, Oh heavens, and exalt Oh earth; break forth Oh mountains into singing!”  The prophet is telling us that all of creation will burst into song.  God created music.  We praise Him, not only in prayer, but in our singing!  Singing is worship, and the Lord delights in hearing our praises.  Never mind about being tone deaf.  He doesn’t care!

In the face of fierce enemy armies, King Jehoshaphat chose a seemingly suicidal response.  In reading 2 Chronicles 20:22, this king did an extraordinary thing.  He ordered the Levite singers into battle ahead of his warriors.  He sent the singers!!!  The amazing thing is that this tactic worked above and beyond any normal military response.  Singers before the warriors??? This must have intimated the enemy. 

“He (the king) had taken counsel with the people. He appointed those who were to sing to the Lord and Praise him in holy attire, as they went before the army and said (sang) “Give thanks to the Lord for His steadfast love endures forever.”  

“As they began to sing and praise, the Lord sent an ambush against the Ammonites, Moab and Mt Seir, who had come against Judah so that they were routed.”

In worship services today, many of us sing the Psalms, which are spiritual songs, some of which were composed by David, and even Moses.  Many of these songs bring comfort to us. “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.”  This is a song.  You can sing it.  Make up your own melody.

When words fail us, sing the Psalms.  They will stir your soul and bring joy to your heart.  They will delight our God. 

Yeshua (Jesus) knew that the disciples and the generations to come after them would face times of intense persecution.  We know that His followers were indeed willing to die for their faith in Him.  Yet the numbers grew. 

Jesus encouraged His disciples by saying “Are not two sparrows sold for a cent?” Perhaps He had in mind the pigeons and turtledoves that the poor brought for offerings in the Temple.  Archaeologists have uncovered numerous dovecotes from the second Temple period which pointed to a large pigeon and dove industry.  The Jewish people raised the birds primarily for food, a poor man’s meat.  But also, they used them as a peace offering in the Temple. 

No one regarded these birds as valuable.  Not like offering a lamb or goat.  Yet Jesus said of these lowly offerings, “Not one of them (sparrows) is forgotten before God.” (Luke 12:6) “Not one of them will fall to the ground apart from your Father.”  (Matt.10:29)

“Look at the birds of the air, they do not sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them.  Are you not worth much more than they?” (Matt 6:26)  

The bird comparison does not guarantee invulnerability.  He did not say that the sparrow will not fall to the ground or that believers will not face tragedy and sorrow.  If God allows the birds to fall to the ground, He may also allow us the same. 

However, His words should bring comfort to us.  That God is mindful of us and the daily challenges we face, be it health, relationships, death.  

How we all wish we could have heard Him speak these words of comfort!  However, Jame’s letter to the Believers tells them not to be surprised that these things will come upon them. “Count it all joy my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness, that you may be perfect and complete lacking in nothing. “

Therefore, be assured that although we might feel like  sparrow or dove or that we can never live up  to what He expects of us……… He knows us and still loves us.    In fact, He told his disciples, “The very hairs of your head are all numbered.”

We can be assured that everything is under His control.   Even those of us who are losing our hair!!

Every professional person, when interviewing for a job must have a resume with references, academic achievements and credentials as well as experience in their particular field of endeavor.  So, does Jesus have a resume and why would He need one? 

Although He never came right out and said He was the promised Messiah, He went about doing the things that the Messiah was required to do.  He performed miracles, healings and well as His teachings.  He said, “I and the Father are One.”  A wild claim that didn’t endear Him to many of the theologians of His day. 

Although He was only a poor carpenter’s son from Galilee He spoke with authority and people were amazed at His teaching! 

Jesus, however, did have a resume.  His resume was a God given authority. 

He said “the Father who sent me has testified of me.  The works that my father has given me to accomplish the very works that I do, testify about me, that the Father has sent me (John 5:36-38) He told the scribes. “You search the scriptures because you think that in them you have eternal life, yet it is these that testify of me.” (John 5:39)

It was for this reason that the disciples of John the Baptizer came to Jesus asking, “Are you the expected one or shall we look for another.”  Jesus responded by saying.  “Go and report to John what you see and hear, the blind receive their sight, the lame walk, lepers are cleansed, the deaf hear, the dead are raised up and the poor have the good news preached to them.”  (Matt.11:4-5).  For John, the words were clear.  Jesus was referring to the prophecy of Isaiah 61 to validate His claim. 

The Messianic Resume inscribed in the Hebrew Scriptures… the Torah, the prophets and the Sacred Writings was the same text that Jesus used to teach the Emmaus Road disciples the truth about himself.

The cross and resurrection prove that Jesus had indeed, defeated the forces of sin and death. 

A New Age was beginning and will culminate in His return and all the forces of evil will be defeated and there will be peace on earth and good will for all men. 

                                        His Resume is from God Himself!  

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Cleopas and his companion were on their way back home from Jerusalem to Emmaus. Suddenly a stranger walked with them.  They told Him about the death of Jesus and the rumors of His resurrection from the dead.  Had he not heard these things?  They invited this stranger to eat with them.  It was the hospitable  thing to do. 

As they were eating, this stranger took the bread and blessed it.  Luke (25:31) says their eyes were opened.  His words suddenly became” alive and burned within them!”  They had a spiritual awakening.  Then…. suddenly He was gone. They knew this was Jesus, who had been crucified and yet He was alive!

Although the sun had set, the two men were determined to return to Jerusalem to tell Peter and the other disciples. Jesus indeed has risen and had supped with them!! 

The two men did not reach the city until after dark. The disciples and others were gathered in a “safe” house.  The doors were shut for fear of the authorities.  Perhaps they too could be convicted as being part of the conspiracy to cause rebellion. Isn’t that how they framed Jesus? He was declared to be a King?  The Romans were always fearful of rebellion of these Jews. This Jesus was called King of the Jews. The followers could cause trouble. 

The two men pounded on the door.  “Let us in……We have seen the risen Lord.  He is alive!!  Mark tells us that they were talking about these things, when the Lord miraculously appears and spoke to them. However, Thomas was not there. 

When the disciples told Thomas about the Lord’s appearing, Thomas doubted their words……” Unless I can see for myself, I can’t believe.”  Surely it was only His spirit that they had seen and not the real Messiah himself.  Dead men don’t rise, do they? 

In the book of John we are told Jesus appeared another time and Thomas was there.  The Lord told Thomas to touch His hands and His feet.  “See its’s really me!” Thomas, falling down before Him, made one the of the most profound statements of faith in all of Scripture. “My Lord and My God.! Thomas needed to see and touch. Seeing is believing that is true, However, the Master said to us.

                  “Blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed. “

Two of the Master’s disciples were on their way to Emmaus from Jerusalem.  Their village was several miles away.  They were slowly walking back home after witnessing the tragedy of the Lord’s crucifixion.  They were confused and discouraged, depressed and fearful.  Their beloved Rabbi was crucified.   He was dead and gone.  He told them that He was the one sent by God.  He was the Messiah.  He was to bring peace to the world to those that believed in Him. 

                        Now all of that had ended at the cross. 

They had heard reports that some women had found the tomb empty and had told Peter. But women aren’t to be believed.  They are full of tales and stories. 

The men argued.  They argued over the details of what the Master had said.  They were trying to piece together all He had told them.   The Romans were still in control.  It seemed that nothing had changed.  Yes, Yeshua, Jesus, had performed miracles.  They had seen that with their own eyes.  But now He was gone.  There was nothing left for them to believe in. 

  Suddenly another man was walking with them.  (Luke 24:13- 31) They did not recognize Him. He was incognito.    He even had supper with them before He finally revealed Himself. 

Jesus was able to return in  different forms.  Mary Magladlene didn’t recognize Him either.  She thought He was the gardener.  The disciples, fishing on the lake, mistook Him as a stranger on the shore, and even as they ate with Him, they did not dare ask Him who He was.

Jesus was able to transcend time and space but also could change His appearance.  How will He appear when He returns?

As Paul says, “For we see through a glass darkly, but then face to face. Now I know in part but then I shall know, even as I am known.”  (1 Cor. 13:12)

                        We all will know Him……We shall see Him in His glory.

                                    He will know us……Are you ready?

After God sent the final plague to the Egyptians, the Pharoah allowed thousands of Hebrews to leave Egypt.  Moses was their leader, and he spoke with authority.  They knew little about what the future held for them.  But first, they must cross the wilderness to reach the land God had promised them.

Now you and I are sometimes wandering in the wilderness.   What lies ahead?

At times we see only a dry, hot desert in front and an enemy behind.  Yet we have the promises of God.  He will provide “our manna from Heaven, “our water from the rock!”  We have our needs met but we are still wanderers.  Where are we going? Where is our Moses?

Jesus has become our Moses.  He is leading the way.  It’s dark and we are fearful.  We can’t see what lies ahead. But He knows.  He will provide.  Not always in the ways we expect. 

Jesus didn’t say our life as Christians would be easy.  In fact, it is usually the opposite. If God is there for us, then why do we have these struggles in life?
We expect our wilderness wanderings will vanish into the Promised Land. 

                          But look back. See where you have been.

                          Now, look ahead.  Did He fail you before? 

It’s the wilderness that has defined who we are.  It’s the wilderness that brings us into greater fellowship with our Messiah. It’s those wilderness wanderings that have made the greatest impact in our lives.  We look for our “Moses. “

                                        He has been there all along.